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      <image:caption>Easter a few years ago with my wife and my two girls. They’re 13 and 15 these days…how time flies!</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Sometimes these dogs drive me crazy, but most of the time they make my heart happy. As Bill Watterson wrote, “It’s hard to be mad at someone who misses you while you’re asleep.”</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>My wife and I at Covenant College, my alma mater and one of my favorite places on earth</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>This feels like yesterday, and I know many parents can relate to that feeling.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Same field, same people, with many years in between. Even this picture is now from a year ago. How the time flies!</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>The annual Big Splash Contest was a huge hit!</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>My wife and her best friend had a great time at the face-painting station.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>On our recent beach trip, I tried to mimic my daughter’s pose. I failed.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Sometimes this is what family life is like: goofy, unpolished, and yet full of laughter!</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Dressed up for a Daddy-Daughter Date Night last year: fun times!</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>This picture is a couple years old, but it will always be one of my favorites!</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>This little girl is now old enough to begin driving in less than a month. Time flies, so let us make the most of it!</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Celebrating our seniors with their special gifts on Senior Night 2019!</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Had to get a team picture after a 4-3 double OT win in the playoffs!</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>I’d be OK with my daughters wearing a bathing suit like this.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>I’m grateful Carly’s teacher let me stop by her room right as school started on the first day!</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>This picture is from the first day of school: always a fun time to let the girls know we care!</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Between the grass Lou cut and our snowball bush, our yard is looking ready for spring!</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Soon it’ll be time to eat on the patio again, enjoying the view and the smell of the grass!</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>One of my all-time favorite pictures, from many years ago: Dad, my older daughter, and me at heading to a soccer game. I’m in coaching gear, Dad’s wearing a Dodgers hat, and Carly was dressed as a princess. That pretty much sums us up!</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>This kind of moment makes all the rest of life worth it.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>This is probably the only picture in which we weren’t doing something ridiculous…which is an accurate representation of us as people as well.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Carly was unimpressed with my attempt to pose the same way she was. I have no idea why; I nailed it!</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Carly and her friends celebrating after their performance. LOVE how well she makes friends and how much fun they had together.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Carly’s mom, Carly, and me, after her performance: VERY PROUD of her!</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Carly’s stoic face before her performance</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2019-02-03</lastmod>
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      <image:title>"Excellent, life-enhancing wisdom..." according to Bob Burg, co-author of 'The Go-Giver' - RLL 63: Over-Communicate with All Adults Involved</image:title>
      <image:caption>Sign-language is not my preferred method of communication. But my daughter rocks at it, so I’m learning!</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>I was very blessed to be able to share this information at the National Head Start Association conference in Florida just before Christmas</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2019-01-20</lastmod>
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      <image:title>"Excellent, life-enhancing wisdom..." according to Bob Burg, co-author of 'The Go-Giver' - RLL 62: Choose to Believe the Best</image:title>
      <image:caption>Speaking at the NHSA Conference about Blended Family Life was a great honor!</image:caption>
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      <image:title>"Excellent, life-enhancing wisdom..." according to Bob Burg, co-author of 'The Go-Giver' - RLL 61: Two Difficulties of Being a Step-parent</image:title>
      <image:caption>Maryellyn and the girls sharing the couch and a blanket on Christmas morning</image:caption>
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      <image:title>"Excellent, life-enhancing wisdom..." according to Bob Burg, co-author of 'The Go-Giver' - RLL 61: Two Difficulties of Being a Step-parent</image:title>
      <image:caption>Maryellyn and Carly celebrating Carly’s birthday on the water</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2019-01-06</lastmod>
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      <image:caption>One of my favorite family pictures: mean-mugging with the soccer balls in front of a goal!</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2018-12-30</lastmod>
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      <image:caption>My wife and I enjoying a date in Orlando after I spoke at a conference there. It’s hard not to be hopeful when surrounded by beauty.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Coaching my younger daughter’s church league soccer team for the final year was bittersweet.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>David and his wife April</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2018-12-23</lastmod>
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      <image:caption>Celebrating with my wife at the end of conference Christmas party. We had a great time at the event, and we’re so thankful to have connected with some amazing people there!</image:caption>
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      <image:title>"Excellent, life-enhancing wisdom..." according to Bob Burg, co-author of 'The Go-Giver' - RLL 58: 10 Commandments of Blended Families</image:title>
      <image:caption>Speaking at the NHSA Conference in Orlando, FL, presenting my work on ‘Four Parents, Two Houses: Parenting Together Despite Difficulties’</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2018-12-16</lastmod>
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      <image:caption>The pups and I slowing down in the evening</image:caption>
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      <image:title>"Excellent, life-enhancing wisdom..." according to Bob Burg, co-author of 'The Go-Giver' - RLL 57: Puppies and Pictures--Memories and Encouragement</image:title>
      <image:caption>My older daughter and my first niece, both very excited about this birthday cake!</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2018-12-09</lastmod>
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      <image:title>"Excellent, life-enhancing wisdom..." according to Bob Burg, co-author of 'The Go-Giver' - RLL 56: Christmas Crazy vs. Christmas holiday?</image:title>
      <image:caption>One of my favorite things is getting to hang out with Bruiser at home.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>"Excellent, life-enhancing wisdom..." according to Bob Burg, co-author of 'The Go-Giver' - RLL 56: Christmas Crazy vs. Christmas holiday?</image:title>
      <image:caption>The most recent kitten rescued (and then given to a friend) by my wife.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>"Excellent, life-enhancing wisdom..." according to Bob Burg, co-author of 'The Go-Giver' - RLL 55: Rainy Days and Recliners--The Importance of Perspective</image:title>
      <image:caption>THANKS to my best friend David for recommending this book to me!</image:caption>
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      <image:title>"Excellent, life-enhancing wisdom..." according to Bob Burg, co-author of 'The Go-Giver' - RLL 55: Rainy Days and Recliners--The Importance of Perspective</image:title>
      <image:caption>These books contain incredible truth and power. Give them a read!</image:caption>
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      <image:title>"Excellent, life-enhancing wisdom..." according to Bob Burg, co-author of 'The Go-Giver' - RLL 55: Rainy Days and Recliners--The Importance of Perspective</image:title>
      <image:caption>A kid, a book, a pup, and a recliner. This is a serious high-point of life in my world!</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>When my daughters put heels on, they really are almost my height!</image:caption>
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      <image:title>"Excellent, life-enhancing wisdom..." according to Bob Burg, co-author of 'The Go-Giver' - RLL 54: How Gratitude Changes Our Hearts</image:title>
      <image:caption>When my wife and I visited Cameron Indoor Stadium this summer, It was fun to see just how much smaller our feet are than those of former Duke basketball players.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>"Excellent, life-enhancing wisdom..." according to Bob Burg, co-author of 'The Go-Giver' - RLL 54: How Gratitude Changes Our Hearts</image:title>
      <image:caption>My best friend, David, and me—just doing what we do at his wedding rehearsal dinner back in October.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>"Excellent, life-enhancing wisdom..." according to Bob Burg, co-author of 'The Go-Giver' - RLL 53: '100 Years Since the Great War'</image:title>
      <image:caption>One of my favorite veterans: my dad! This is also one of my all-time favorite pictures: Dad in his signature Dodgers cap, my older daughter in a Cinderella gown, and me getting ready to coach a soccer game. These kinds of memories are ones to treasure.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>"Excellent, life-enhancing wisdom..." according to Bob Burg, co-author of 'The Go-Giver' - RLL 53: '100 Years Since the Great War'</image:title>
      <image:caption>Another one of my favorite veterans: my mom! Here, Mom and my younger daughter were dressed up for a school event.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>https://www.amazon.com/Messiah-Method-Disciplines-Winningest-College/dp/1613790252/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1541336512&amp;sr=8-1&amp;keywords=the+messiah+method</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>A gift I received after coaching my younger daughter’s soccer team this fall.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>"Excellent, life-enhancing wisdom..." according to Bob Burg, co-author of 'The Go-Giver' - RLL 50: Are You Tough Enough To Be Kind?</image:title>
      <image:caption>Sometimes kindness is driving a few hundred miles to help a friend who is far from home and dealing with new children. And sometimes that kindness results in the reward of getting to hold the baby!</image:caption>
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      <image:title>"Excellent, life-enhancing wisdom..." according to Bob Burg, co-author of 'The Go-Giver' - RLL 50: Are You Tough Enough To Be Kind?</image:title>
      <image:caption>Sometimes kindness is not being “too cool” to hug your dad in front of your friends when he comes to have lunch with you on his off-day.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>"Excellent, life-enhancing wisdom..." according to Bob Burg, co-author of 'The Go-Giver' - RLL 50: Are You Tough Enough To Be Kind?</image:title>
      <image:caption>Sometimes kindness is as simple as helping your grandmother take your great-grandmother grocery shopping.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>"Excellent, life-enhancing wisdom..." according to Bob Burg, co-author of 'The Go-Giver' - RLL 48: My Best Friend's Wedding</image:title>
      <image:caption>My sister and I with the groom at the reception!</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>My best friend and me, goofing off and re-enacting a post from our younger days, before putting on our fancy clothes for the ceremony</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Mel wasn’t at all sorry about getting to drive this car! Unfortunately, it looked like the weather might not cooperate with the convertible.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>"Excellent, life-enhancing wisdom..." according to Bob Burg, co-author of 'The Go-Giver' - RLL 47: Mel's Mustang</image:title>
      <image:caption>I’m glad she even got to put the top down after the weather cleared up!</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>https://reallifeleading.com/real-life-leading-blog/jbx8kag5pddms8m3ch75xcchh3h92k</loc>
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    <lastmod>2018-09-23</lastmod>
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      <image:title>"Excellent, life-enhancing wisdom..." according to Bob Burg, co-author of 'The Go-Giver' - RLL 46: Goals and Goals</image:title>
      <image:caption>My daughters and I with two of my favorites! These two girls (one already a Division I player, the other on her way to becoming one) know from experience how to set goals and how to accomplish them. Also: YES, I’m standing on my toes in this picture!</image:caption>
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      <image:title>"Excellent, life-enhancing wisdom..." according to Bob Burg, co-author of 'The Go-Giver' - RLL 46: Goals and Goals</image:title>
      <image:caption>If you want to learn more about why goals are important (but relationships are even more important), go pick up a copy of my book on amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Inverted-Leadership-Others-Forgetting-Yourself/dp/1983110167/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&amp;qid=1528802141&amp;sr=8-1.</image:caption>
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    <loc>https://reallifeleading.com/real-life-leading-blog/h2z6f5p2n8cc766t46jmf59r8jmtth</loc>
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    <lastmod>2018-09-16</lastmod>
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      <image:title>"Excellent, life-enhancing wisdom..." according to Bob Burg, co-author of 'The Go-Giver' - Beginnings and Endings</image:title>
      <image:caption>My younger daughter and I, back when she was still too young to play in our local league.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>"Excellent, life-enhancing wisdom..." according to Bob Burg, co-author of 'The Go-Giver' - Beginnings and Endings</image:title>
      <image:caption>My younger daughter and I yesterday, on her last “First Day” of the season. Time flies!</image:caption>
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    <loc>https://reallifeleading.com/real-life-leading-blog/lsk4srexnxw26tfwlm3mcp3f95jx9g</loc>
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    <lastmod>2018-09-09</lastmod>
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      <image:title>"Excellent, life-enhancing wisdom..." according to Bob Burg, co-author of 'The Go-Giver' - RLL 44: Leading in the Midst of Busy</image:title>
      <image:caption>Me and my partner-in-life: my wife, who helps me get everything done, even when I don't fully realize how much she's helped!</image:caption>
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      <image:title>"Excellent, life-enhancing wisdom..." according to Bob Burg, co-author of 'The Go-Giver' - RLL 44: Leading in the Midst of Busy</image:title>
      <image:caption>Just a sample of the lists of things on my desk!</image:caption>
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    <loc>https://reallifeleading.com/real-life-leading-blog/55kcmcabkpnp9xk87pxnrxscwwtjfk</loc>
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    <lastmod>2018-11-18</lastmod>
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      <image:title>"Excellent, life-enhancing wisdom..." according to Bob Burg, co-author of 'The Go-Giver' - RLL 43: How Do You Begin to Lead with Passion? Serve!</image:title>
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  <url>
    <loc>https://reallifeleading.com/real-life-leading-blog/2whhhmbbr6ral5yj7hnjkel7mmp4wb</loc>
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    <lastmod>2018-08-19</lastmod>
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  <url>
    <loc>https://reallifeleading.com/real-life-leading-blog/83ywznecpjax2f76fxktx8rkg6pzpy</loc>
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      <image:title>"Excellent, life-enhancing wisdom..." according to Bob Burg, co-author of 'The Go-Giver' - RLL 41: Lessons from the Beginning of School</image:title>
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  <url>
    <loc>https://reallifeleading.com/real-life-leading-blog/galy7clm4mex4am4zskyh6dk2dfrkr</loc>
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    <lastmod>2018-08-05</lastmod>
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      <image:title>"Excellent, life-enhancing wisdom..." according to Bob Burg, co-author of 'The Go-Giver' - RLL 40--Leadership Lessons from Duke</image:title>
      <image:caption>Our instructional team at Duke</image:caption>
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      <image:title>"Excellent, life-enhancing wisdom..." according to Bob Burg, co-author of 'The Go-Giver' - RLL 40--Leadership Lessons from Duke</image:title>
      <image:caption>Standing at mid-court inside Cameron Indoor Stadium, a must for any Duke basketball fan to visit</image:caption>
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      <image:title>"Excellent, life-enhancing wisdom..." according to Bob Burg, co-author of 'The Go-Giver' - RLL 40--Leadership Lessons from Duke</image:title>
      <image:caption>One of my favorite spots in the gardens, because it looks how I imagine the Shire to look</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>https://reallifeleading.com/real-life-leading-blog/zdarhppm86ygdrxk7xnwmjjw259gjk</loc>
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    <lastmod>2018-07-08</lastmod>
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      <image:title>"Excellent, life-enhancing wisdom..." according to Bob Burg, co-author of 'The Go-Giver' - RLL 39--Lessons from the World Cup (Knockout Rounds)</image:title>
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      <image:title>"Excellent, life-enhancing wisdom..." according to Bob Burg, co-author of 'The Go-Giver' - RLL 39--Lessons from the World Cup (Knockout Rounds)</image:title>
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      <image:title>"Excellent, life-enhancing wisdom..." according to Bob Burg, co-author of 'The Go-Giver' - RLL 39--Lessons from the World Cup (Knockout Rounds)</image:title>
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  <url>
    <loc>https://reallifeleading.com/real-life-leading-blog/k8b4t6enprm75tfzkrm3c2akn3drt5</loc>
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    <lastmod>2018-07-01</lastmod>
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      <image:title>"Excellent, life-enhancing wisdom..." according to Bob Burg, co-author of 'The Go-Giver' - RLL 38--Lessons from the World Cup (Group Stage)</image:title>
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      <image:title>"Excellent, life-enhancing wisdom..." according to Bob Burg, co-author of 'The Go-Giver' - RLL 38--Lessons from the World Cup (Group Stage)</image:title>
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  <url>
    <loc>https://reallifeleading.com/real-life-leading-blog/6h3gdtjkx8kjpmet2ffpay8ed58lmk</loc>
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    <lastmod>2018-06-24</lastmod>
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      <image:title>"Excellent, life-enhancing wisdom..." according to Bob Burg, co-author of 'The Go-Giver' - RLL 37--Lessons from Science Camp</image:title>
      <image:caption>Leafy Seadragon</image:caption>
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      <image:title>"Excellent, life-enhancing wisdom..." according to Bob Burg, co-author of 'The Go-Giver' - RLL 37--Lessons from Science Camp</image:title>
      <image:caption>Bioluminescent Octopus</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>https://reallifeleading.com/real-life-leading-blog/a6p57lyp9zc4tdmwsf2lzzrp9ka9cm</loc>
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    <lastmod>2018-06-17</lastmod>
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      <image:title>"Excellent, life-enhancing wisdom..." according to Bob Burg, co-author of 'The Go-Giver' - RLL 36--Lessons from Dad</image:title>
      <image:caption>The cover of '(Extra)Ordinary Leadership': Dad in his military dress uniform.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>"Excellent, life-enhancing wisdom..." according to Bob Burg, co-author of 'The Go-Giver' - RLL 36--Lessons from Dad</image:title>
      <image:caption>One of my all-time favorite pictures: Dad, my older daughter, and me, on our way to a soccer game.</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>https://reallifeleading.com/real-life-leading-blog/f64d2p83agtg2z35tfe8yd34nkbxkw</loc>
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    <lastmod>2018-06-10</lastmod>
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      <image:title>"Excellent, life-enhancing wisdom..." according to Bob Burg, co-author of 'The Go-Giver' - RLL 35--Inverted Leadership (Part 4 of 4)</image:title>
      <image:caption>Thanks for reading, and I hope you've been encouraged today!</image:caption>
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      <image:title>"Excellent, life-enhancing wisdom..." according to Bob Burg, co-author of 'The Go-Giver' - RLL 35--Inverted Leadership (Part 4 of 4)</image:title>
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  <url>
    <loc>https://reallifeleading.com/real-life-leading-blog/r63z7aywa7jh34hsramrpmjkp5hmjm</loc>
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    <lastmod>2018-06-03</lastmod>
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      <image:title>"Excellent, life-enhancing wisdom..." according to Bob Burg, co-author of 'The Go-Giver' - RLL 34--Inverted Leadership (part 3 of 4)</image:title>
      <image:caption>C.S. Lewis, teacher, author, apologist</image:caption>
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      <image:title>"Excellent, life-enhancing wisdom..." according to Bob Burg, co-author of 'The Go-Giver' - RLL 34--Inverted Leadership (part 3 of 4)</image:title>
      <image:caption>'Calvin and Hobbes' by Bill Watterson</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>https://reallifeleading.com/real-life-leading-blog/nlmxdea2b5r7dpjmae4agt6rgnen85</loc>
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    <lastmod>2018-05-27</lastmod>
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      <image:title>"Excellent, life-enhancing wisdom..." according to Bob Burg, co-author of 'The Go-Giver' - RLL 33--Inverted Leadership (part 2 of 4)</image:title>
      <image:caption>Queen Elizabeth I of England, also known as Elizabeth Tudor and as 'The Virgin Queen' (image from englishhistory.net, accessed on 5/27/18 at 6:51am)</image:caption>
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      <image:title>"Excellent, life-enhancing wisdom..." according to Bob Burg, co-author of 'The Go-Giver' - RLL 33--Inverted Leadership (part 2 of 4)</image:title>
      <image:caption>How many of us have been here before? (From http://www.intellectualtakeout.org/article/dishwasher-loading-arguments-are-common-reason, accessed on 5/27/18 at 7:03a.m.)</image:caption>
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      <image:title>"Excellent, life-enhancing wisdom..." according to Bob Burg, co-author of 'The Go-Giver' - RLL 33--Inverted Leadership (part 2 of 4)</image:title>
      <image:caption>Portrait of Napoleon by Jacques-Louis-David - 'The Emperor Napoleon In His Study At the Tuileries' (wikipedia--accessed 5/27/18 at 6:47am)</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>https://reallifeleading.com/real-life-leading-blog/zepkw3crjkpkxrpsegfcykt27gba75</loc>
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    <lastmod>2018-05-20</lastmod>
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      <image:title>"Excellent, life-enhancing wisdom..." according to Bob Burg, co-author of 'The Go-Giver' - RLL 32--Inverted Leadership (part 1 of 4)</image:title>
      <image:caption>First principle of confident humility: Lead Where You Are</image:caption>
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      <image:title>"Excellent, life-enhancing wisdom..." according to Bob Burg, co-author of 'The Go-Giver' - RLL 32--Inverted Leadership (part 1 of 4)</image:title>
      <image:caption>This is one of my all-time favorite pictures of Dad, my older daughter, and me. If you can't tell, she's wearing a Cinderella gown...to a soccer game. She's not concerned about being judged or laughed at because she didn't know any better, and she was confident in the love of those around her.</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>https://reallifeleading.com/real-life-leading-blog/7l2klnzzyj3fabpa4k22x8jn6zttwh</loc>
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    <lastmod>2018-05-13</lastmod>
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      <image:title>"Excellent, life-enhancing wisdom..." according to Bob Burg, co-author of 'The Go-Giver' - RLL 31--3 Things I Learned From My Mom (And Other Moms)</image:title>
      <image:caption>Mom and I at my wedding in 2014.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>My siblings and I with our wonderful mother!</image:caption>
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      <image:title>"Excellent, life-enhancing wisdom..." according to Bob Burg, co-author of 'The Go-Giver' - RLL 30--Responsibility and Selflessness: Two Leadership Essentials</image:title>
      <image:caption>This is Dad in his dress uniform, not long before his retirement. I'm grateful to all who choose to serve in our armed forces.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>"Excellent, life-enhancing wisdom..." according to Bob Burg, co-author of 'The Go-Giver' - RLL 30--Responsibility and Selflessness: Two Leadership Essentials</image:title>
      <image:caption>Youth and high school athletics is a great venue for helping kids learn about personal responsibility. I've loved being a coach for almost fifteen years.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>"Excellent, life-enhancing wisdom..." according to Bob Burg, co-author of 'The Go-Giver' - RLL 29--Controlling Emotions and Getting Work Done: Two More Keys to Leading Well</image:title>
      <image:caption>Last year's state championship game ended in a 4-0 loss for us. Some days at work are better than others, but choosing to celebrate the good (rather than be angry at our loss) is one way to make sure that it was still an enjoyable evening.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>"Excellent, life-enhancing wisdom..." according to Bob Burg, co-author of 'The Go-Giver' - RLL 29--Controlling Emotions and Getting Work Done: Two More Keys to Leading Well</image:title>
      <image:caption>Grandfather and granddaughter together--what better reason to choose to be in a good mood every morning?</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>I was very glad to learn how to ride a horse from two experienced riders: my wife (pictured here) and my former student Cody (who was out ahead of us, leading the way).</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>This is Erik, who showed me such great respect when I didn't deserve any at all. Still a mentor and a friend over 20 years later!</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Dad in his dress uniform. He taught me many things just through how he lived, and he continues to teach me things even though he's been gone for 10 years.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>"Excellent, life-enhancing wisdom..." according to Bob Burg, co-author of 'The Go-Giver' - RLL 28--Respect and Anger: Two Keys to Better Relationships</image:title>
      <image:caption>I'm very thankful that my daughters are kinder to each other than I was to my brother when we were that age.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>"Excellent, life-enhancing wisdom..." according to Bob Burg, co-author of 'The Go-Giver' - RLL 27--Attitude Shapes All: Perception is Reality, So Change Your Perception</image:title>
      <image:caption>We have a great time when we do photo adventures!</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>My family's annual Easter picture!</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Butterscotch (on the left) and Bruiser (on the right) don't look too happy about being kept out of the garden!</image:caption>
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      <image:title>"Excellent, life-enhancing wisdom..." according to Bob Burg, co-author of 'The Go-Giver' - RLL 26: The Power of Partnerships--Two C's to Working Better Together</image:title>
      <image:caption>All of us gathered together to celebrate our daughter's baptism at her grandfather's church.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>The amazing students at JSU's International House! We had a great time that night, and now my wife and I are glad to be able to help them out in the aftermath of the recent tornado.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>"Excellent, life-enhancing wisdom..." according to Bob Burg, co-author of 'The Go-Giver' - RLL 24: Two Tees to Better Leadership</image:title>
      <image:caption>My former youth pastor, soccer coach, and accountability partner, Erik.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>This is us last year: our second straight trip to the state championship game! We couldn't have done it without everyone involved: supporters, parents, players, and coaches!</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>This was from a few years back: our program's first-ever playoff victory!</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>How we respond is greatly shaped by what we stand for and what we see when we look around.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>When things don't look so good, how does your group respond?</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>They also love getting into the recliner whenever anyone sits down!</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>The pups love getting to be on the couch at their grandparents' house!</image:caption>
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      <image:title>"Excellent, life-enhancing wisdom..." according to Bob Burg, co-author of 'The Go-Giver' - RLL 20--Church Camp and Yellow Card: Difficult Conversations and Leadership</image:title>
      <image:caption>Hanging out with the daughters on a fun afternoon</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>My older daughter and I goofing off when we're supposed to be doing a photo session.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>My younger daughter and I on another photo adventure!</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Some of the seniors and others from the 2016 AHSAA State-Runner up team. ALSO an amazing group of people!</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>This is what my desk looks like when I work. Notice the mini-cassette recorder: this is how I 'wrote' much of my first draft while making my forty-five minute drive to and from school each day.</image:caption>
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